We've all heard the stories and probably experienced at least one heartbreak in our lifetimes. The problem is that we let ourselves get so emotionally mutilated by people we claim to love. Since I have recently decided that romance is completely over-rated I thought this blog post could be about rules I have set up for myself to prevent tears and over-indulging on ice cream. These rules aren't just for romantic relationships, they're useful in dealing with the ex-friend that has resurfaced to ruin you.
Rule 1.
Always cover up your sadness with a smile. If you show that you've been wounded then you'll only attract people who want to rip your wounds wide open and watch you crumble. They circle, in a fashion that resembles that of a pack of vultures, and they will beat you even when you're down.
Rule 2.
When in doubt, just get out. Don't sit around thinking and thinking about someone's loyalty to you, if they were loyal you wouldn't be questioning it. You know what they say, you don't get smoke without flames, and honestly that has never been proved wrong in my experience.
Rule 3.
Kill them with kindness. The best way to out someone for the monster you've discovered they are, is to simply ignore their spitefulness and let everyone else discover how cruel they are. If you let their comments slide over your back then you can be free, which leads me to the final rule for today's post...
Rule 4.
Be invincible. Be a rock. You are not what they say, you are what you do.
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